found it - here it is

cat mongod.service

[Unit]
Description=MongoDB Database Server
Documentation=https://docs.mongodb.org/manual
After=network-online.target
Wants=network-online.target

[Service]
User=mongod
Group=mongod
Environment=“OPTIONS=-f /etc/mongod.conf”
Environment=“MONGODB_CONFIG_OVERRIDE_NOFORK=1”
EnvironmentFile=-/etc/sysconfig/mongod
ExecStart=/usr/bin/mongod $OPTIONS
RuntimeDirectory=mongodb

file size

LimitFSIZE=infinity

cpu time

LimitCPU=infinity

virtual memory size

LimitAS=infinity

open files

LimitNOFILE=64000

processes/threads

LimitNPROC=64000

locked memory

LimitMEMLOCK=infinity

total threads (user+kernel)

TasksMax=infinity
TasksAccounting=false

Recommended limits for mongod as specified in

https://docs.mongodb.com/manual/reference/ulimit/#recommended-ulimit-settings

[Install]
WantedBy=multi-user.target