I am not a Mac user, but I can interpret few of those errors.
When running locally, this error comes up because there is no service listening on that port. This means mongod failed to start. you need to inspect the cause, fix it, and then restart mongod again.
This error mostly arises because either there is an instance of server running on that port or an instance was not shutdown properly, hence the file is locked. The remaining part also tell that root access is needed.
First, check if the old version is still there and running. then stop it.
If there is no running server, even trying to run the server as root will fail. because the existence of this file causes mongod to think a server is already running. removing this lock file mostly solves the issue.
also, check if the new server is installed fine by this command: mongod --version.